Today, December 21, is winter solstice, the shortest day of the year. It’s the perfect day to talk about Laura Weir’s book Cosy: The British Art of Comfort. Even before you pick up the book, you might notice that it’s spelled “Cosy”, the British spelling, instead of “cozy”. And, there are parts of the book that are actually directed to the British. You’ll notice foods you may only recognize from British books, and cosy places to stay that are in Britain. But, then, the weather there, and Weir’s love of winter create that cosy atmosphere. Rose Electra Harris’ illustrations just add to the comfortable feeling of this book.

Weir’s introduction draws the reader in, creating a feeling of comfort. Several of her comments about times and locations made me think of comfort. “I was with my parents, and that reassuring comfort of being with people you love is key.” Here’s one for all of us who become anxious, those of us who spend too much time listening or reading the news. “Over the past few years I have found myself seeking comfort from politically dark winters and the relentlessly bleak news cycle.”

Whether your comfort is tea, as it usually is for the British, or hot chocolate, as it is for me, or wine, Weir’s comment makes sense. “I don’t just want to drink a warm cup of tea, I want my emotional state to mirror that of a cuppa too – warm, predictable, reassuring.”

What’s cosy? It’s warm clothing in the cold winters. It’s sweaters (jumpers) and blankets. It’s definitely food, whatever is comfort food for you. To the author, it’s fires and candles and baths. It’s hunkering down in a cosy corner, a small space, not a large cavernous room. It’s home. And, it’s the time of year to recognize that not everyone has a place to be warm and cosy. Weir mentions British charities in one chapter, but there’s no reason we can’t find the one that touches our hearts. She lists cosy films and cosy reads, including Little Women, which is appropriate for this year, but, it’s always appropriate.

In the end, Laura Weir’s book can really be summarized by saying cosy isn’t expensive or showy. It’s private or shared with loved ones. It’s whatever means comfortable. Frederick Loewe described my version of a cosy world perfectly in two verses Liza Doolittle sang in “My Fair Lady”. 


All I want is a room somewhere

Far away from the cold night air
With one enormous chair
Oh, wouldn’t it be loverly?
Lots of chocolate for me to eat
Lots of coal makin’ lots of heat
Warm face, warm hands, warm feet
Oh, wouldn’t it be loverly?”

Laura Weir doesn’t mention “My Fair Lady”, but that’s my description of cosy right there, with the addition of books and cats. You might want to check out her version in Cosy: The British Art of Comfort.

Cosy: The British Art of Comfort by Laura Weir. HarperOne, 2019. ISBN 9780062948168 (hardcover), 184p.

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FTC Full Disclosure – I bought my copy of the book.